Ok ladies, this is just a teaser of information, just like your rockin’ hot striptease will be. A lot of women ask me how to successfully and confidently pull off a sexy dance for their significant other. I can only give you some high level information here because there is just too much for a blog post. However, if you are interested in more, feel free to email me to set up a one-on-one lesson or a party with your girlfriends. It is quite possibly my favorite class to teach b/c not only will you be completely empowered to bare all in a super sexy dance, you will also have a blast discovering how quickly your inner vixen comes to the surface.
1) Easy On, Easy Off
Leave the complicated outfits in the lingerie drawer. You will most likely be nervous the first few times you do this, so you must make it easy on yourself. I suggest a sexy bra and panty set, with a button-down shirt (if it is his that’s even better) and pair of high heels. Easy on, easy off. ;-)
2) Hardwood Floors
It is tempting to do this in the bedroom just because that is most likely where the action happens. But if your bedroom is carpeted, dancing around or even walking around in high heels can be super difficult, especially if you are wearing a nice tall stiletto (preferred!) The padding under the carpet can be very unsettling. So, think of other locations in your home where you can do this, a space where there is a firmer floor. You might want to start there and end up in the bedroom. If the bedroom is the only location, start practicing in there.
Whatever music you pick, be it jazz, blues, heavy metal… whatever… find the slow beat of the song and dance to that. Not sure what that is or how to find it? Need some good song suggestions that will make you feel like the sexiest woman on the planet? E-mail me. I will hook you up. I have an arsenal of sexy music I can suggest.
4) Dance Moves
There are several dance moves I can show you that will get your mate TOTALLY worked up. They are easy, performed slowly and totally controlled. The main thing to remember is eye contact, a lot of it. I don’t want you to stare him down so hard he thinks he is being interrogated in a Law and Order episode! However, I do want you want to look at him just enough that he knows you are present in the moment, that you are enjoying this (even if you are more nervous than you’ve ever been in your life) and that you like watching him watch you. It is less about what you are doing and more about the fact that you are actually doing it, for him. All for him. This thought alone, rolling around in his head as he looks at your sexy self, is going to be enough to turn him on and make him long to touch you.
Have some of your own tips or tricks to share? Leave us a comment! Want more information? Shoot me an email. Let’s book your one-on-one session or your Girlfriends’ Get-together, complete with a sexy photo shoot and seductive dance lesson.